Make friends as an adult
Why it gets harder after school and what helps, from plans that repeat to the first awkward invitation.
6 guides · Updated June 15, 2026
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Why is it hard to make friends as an adult?
Fewer places put you next to the same people week after week, the way school or a first job did. Repeat contact is what turns acquaintances into friends.
How long does it take to make a friend?
Research by Jeffrey Hall (2018) puts it at about 50 hours together for a casual friend, around 90 for a friend and more than 200 for a close one.
Where can adults meet new friends?
Anywhere you can go back to, like a class, a club, a volunteering slot or a weekly dinner. The guide to making friends as an adult lists the options.