This or that questions

Quick picks that start longer conversations.

Who are you with?
What mood?
How many?
  1. Read the pair.
  2. Everyone answers fast.
  3. Stop on the ones that split the room.

All 99 this or that questions

Light

  1. Morning or night?
  2. Big party or dinner for four?
  3. Plan everything or see what happens?
  4. Call or text?
  5. Coffee or tea?
  6. Beach or mountains?
  7. Sweet or savory?
  8. The book or the movie?
  9. Window seat or aisle seat?
  10. Cook at home or eat out?
  11. Early flight or red-eye?
  12. Dogs or cats?
  13. Pizza or tacos?
  14. Sunrise or sunset?
  15. City break or road trip?
  16. Breakfast in bed or dinner out?
  17. Summer or winter?
  18. Board games or card games?
  19. Museums or markets?
  20. Spicy or mild?
  21. Karaoke or dancing?
  22. Campfire or fireplace?
  23. Chips or popcorn?
  24. Bookstore or record store?
  25. Picnic in the park or dinner on a terrace?
  26. The original or the sequel?
  27. Pancakes or waffles?
  28. Bowling or mini golf?
  29. Ice cream or cake?
  30. Rain or snow?
  31. Train or plane?
  32. Superpower or time machine?
  33. Comedy or horror?
  34. Theme park or national park?
  35. Crossword or sudoku?
  36. Fresh sheets or fresh bread?
  37. Front row or back row?
  38. Fiction or true stories?
  39. Nap or snack?
  40. Bath or shower?
  41. Chocolate or vanilla?
  42. Ocean or lake?
  43. Garden or balcony?
  44. Old songs or new releases?
  45. Live music or a good playlist?
  46. Clean desk or creative mess?
  47. Work from home or the office?
  48. Camera on or camera off?
  49. Coffee break or walk break?
  50. Team lunch or solo lunch?
  51. One big project or lots of small tasks?
  52. Tight deadline or no deadline?
  53. Headphones in or headphones out?
  54. Standing desk or comfy chair?
  55. Lead the meeting or take the notes?
  56. Four-day week or more vacation days?
  57. Spreadsheets or slides?
  58. Plan the trip or pack the bags?
  59. Share plates or your own dish?
  60. Appetizer or dessert?
  61. Walk or bike?
  62. Movie night at home or at the theater?
  63. Space or dinosaurs?
  64. Hug or handshake?
  65. Surprise party or no party at all?
  66. Cook or clean up?
  67. Split the bill or take turns paying?
  68. Hold hands or link arms?

Deep

  1. Old friends or new people?
  2. Handwritten letter or surprise visit?
  3. Head or heart?
  4. Past or future?
  5. Big dreams or small joys?
  6. Roots or wings?
  7. Big city or small town for life?
  8. Talk it out or sleep on it?
  9. Say it now or wait for the right moment?
  10. Give advice or get advice?
  11. Comfort or growth?
  12. Work to live or live to work?
  13. Change the world or change your street?
  14. Ask for help or figure it out alone?
  15. Learn from books or from people?

Bold

A little daring, never explicit

  1. Be famous for a day or unknown and rich forever?
  2. Play it safe or go all in?
  3. Truth or dare?
  4. Go up to strangers or wait for them to come to you?
  5. Love at first sight or slow burn?
  6. Matching outfits or matching tattoos?
  7. Cuddle all night or your own side of the bed?
  8. Zip line or hot air balloon?
  9. Confess a crush or take it to the grave?
  10. Lead the dance floor or hold up the wall?
  11. Text first or wait for them to text?
  12. Spontaneous trip tonight or perfect trip next year?
  13. Ask for a raise or ask for more time off?
  14. Present to the CEO or to the whole company?
  15. Haunted house or escape room?
  16. White lie or awkward truth?

Questions about the questions

How do you play this or that?

Read two options and everyone picks one straight away. Go fast, then come back to the answers that surprised people.

Try them on new people

Every week Timeleft seats small groups of strangers for dinner, coffee or a walk, with conversation prompts built in.
How many more times will you see them?How big is your bubble?Which city were you made for?How big is your social battery, really?What's your social health score?